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Anatomy Rule

Christian Dating For Real Life

This is not your normal Christian dating blog.  It's honest, sexually charged, funny, and biblical.  It's for the hot and bothered.  Whether you carry baggage or a V-card, there's something here for you.

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So many Christians who planned to wait didn't.  For many, it just kind of happened.  Maybe that's you.

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Whether you're 13 or 37, just starting out or divorced, this blog gives you the tools to successfully abstain until it's time.  It will answer questions, calm your fears, and connect you to other strong, well-known Christian voices.

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The Wait After Rape- Pt 3 of 3

When robbed of her virginity, Chloe was left with uncertainty. What was once clear became very muddy. It is expected that rape would...

The Wait After Rape- Pt 2 of 3

She'd chosen virginity until marriage. After college, Chloe was a humanitarian volunteer in Samoa. Near the end of her two year...

The Wait After Rape- Pt 1 of 3

Chloe chose to save sex for marriage, but she was repeatedly raped during a violent attack. What does abstinence look like after an attack? Does it even still matter? This beautifully vulnerable interview shares her experience, the aftermath, and its impact on intimacy with her (now) husband.

Wedding Night Bust

Carol was abstinent until she was married, but on her honeymoon- surprise. They couldn’t have sex. She talks about what went wrong, how...

That Slippery Slope

That Summer Night The summer after high school graduation, I was on a date with a guy friend. I had on a cute tank top with snaps up the...

How to Keep It In Your Pants (And Stay Out of Hers)

Hoping to abstain from having sex? Have you tried to avoid giving in so many times before that you’re not sure it’s humanly possible? ...

7 Reasons Christians Should Be Having Premarital Sex?

Delicious I finally got some writing done today. Yay, self. Now...Ice cream shop!! OK, honesty time. I was going to get ice cream no...

Abstinent Guy IRL- The Pact (Part 2 of 2)

Post Title: Abstinent Guy IRL- The Pact (Part 2 of 2) The First Vow Jackson realized making out was all or nothing for him. If he so...

Abstinent Guy IRL- Falling (Part 1 of 2)

Post Title: Abstinent Man IRL- Falling (Part 1 of 2) Jackson took an unusual approach to abstinence through a pact with God. His story is...

Am I Going to Hell Because I Had Sex?

This is a fair and serious question. I’m glad you are asking! It depends Are you a Christian? We are all hell bound. It sucks. We sin...

How God Really Feels About Sex

Post Title: How God Really Feels About Sex (and Why) Good Sex, God Says Get Some God gets a bad rep as a sex hater. Yes, the Bible...

How I Did It (or rather, How I Didn’t)

My intro post made it clear that I wrestled with desire and encountered opportunities to go the distance, so why didn’t I end up having...

Get Less to Get More

Making Gains by Postponing Sex Maybe you’re still at odds with God over this whole waiting until marriage thing. That sounds cute and...

The Anatomy Rule: A Provocative Approach to Abstinence

I am gonna blow your mind. What I’m suggesting sounds undesirable, impossible, even stupid. It is different from what most Christians...

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